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Kia ora and warm Pacific greetings! I’m Sione, and I'm honoured to be your kaitiaki (guardian) of this page. It's good to have you with us! Whether you’re visiting for the first time or coming back for more, I'm here to help you every step of the way. We are currently developing this e-learning platform ready for its release in January 2025. Check out our current version we are offering and come back soon for an updated version.
Supporting our bros who have received a sexual abuse disclosure
Disclosing sexual abuse can be a difficult and traumatic experience for bros, and those who receive these disclosures need to be equipped to provide the right support. This webpage offers guidance, resources, and links to help you as a support person navigate this sensitive situation. This information will change over time so be sure to come back in 2025.
Understanding the Role of a Support Person
When someone discloses sexual abuse to you, your response can be critical in helping them feel safe and validated. Here are some essential principles to keep in mind:
Module One: Listen Actively: Provide a safe space for them to share their experience. Listen without interruption, judgment, or assumptions.
Module Two: Believe and Validate: It’s essential to believe the person and validate their feelings. Acknowledge their courage in sharing.
Module Three: Maintain Confidentiality: Respect the bros privacy. Unless they are in immediate danger or at risk of harming themselves or others, keep the disclosure confidential.
Module Four: Provide Emotional Support: Offer comfort and understanding, recognizing that everyone processes trauma differently.
Module Five: Encourage Professional Help: While your support is valuable, it’s essential to encourage the survivor to seek professional help from qualified counselors or therapists.
How to Respond Appropriately- Supporting Support People
As a support person, you play an essential role in the healing journey of survivors of sexual abuse. Providing compassionate, informed, and respectful assistance can make a significant impact. We hope the resources listed on this page help you in your efforts to support those in need. Remember, your support matters, and no one should navigate this difficult path alone.